Being Interested in others

In our everyday lives do we feel concerned about how clearly do we express ourselves and also try to know about others like to be interested in people around us? Does the person next to really feel connected to what we say? are we clear in what we speak and ask? Are we showing enough interest in what and how he has to say about what we are saying to him/her?

All above questions have one theme in common: Being interested and earn interest. The best method of keeping a conversation lively is by speaking to-the-point and in an audible manner with appropriate breaks and pauses in between individual statements and topics. It’s always suggested neither to lose other person’s attention span nor one’s own. If the other person is a stranger, it’s always best to ask his/her name to show that you are genuinely interested in knowing and hence speaking with the other person. There is a quote best explaining my idea:

In a typical interview, an employer looks for how familiar the interviewee is with the company’s aims and track record. The interviewee tries to prove how he is best suited to work with that very organization and that he/she has relevant skill set to carry out the tasks he is supported to be assigned. If he proved being interested in company there are more chances for getting a job.

Similarly, we can get people, earn friendships and have good circle by being interested in others and by making them feel important to you.

Last days, I was with one of my friends. Suddenly I thought of being interested in her by one of sentence he spoke, It made in interested in her. I started knowing about her and started chatting with her about her by knowing her. Then after spending a best time by showing my interest to her, I felt that I have succeeded in having her trust on me. I got a lot about her, her aims even her troubles in life which she shared with me. Before knowing that I was really considering her a normal friend with no hardships. I knew how is she having her tasks and challenges and how she met them. I learnt a lot from her. Especially I learned her. I n fact I won her with in one -to-two days of my life spending on her. This made me feeling blessed.

At the end, I would add being interested is more important than being interesting to win. As Ann Landers says;

Stay Blessed.

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